vickythunder1988
08-11-2009, 02:53 PM
But first you really need to understand what the Suhag Raat is. Like
most people in the world, Indians also pick up ideas and concepts
from movies they watch. I remember watching Hindi films while
growing up and every time there was a marriage there was such
importance paid to the Suhag Raat. Of course in these traditional
films both the guy and girl were depicted as virgins, the girl even
more so being projected as very scared and innocent. Most of the
marriages were arranged, and many still are. So the concept of the
first time Suhag Raat is still quite real.
The classic Suhag Raat scene is usually a girl sitting in her
wedding Sari on the middle of a large bed covered with flowers and
surrounded by a curtain of garlands. Before the man enters the room
in his clean white Kurta, his mother hands him a glass of warm milk
which will supposedly enhance his potency. He enters the room with a
sweet look on his face and crawls into the bed with his bride,
slowly lifting the viel that covers her face. Add in the music. She
looks down at the mattress coyly, and then looks into his loving
eyes very slowly. The scene usually ends there or with some clips of
their hands and feet firmly stroking one another.
So if some youngsters out there are expecting this on their Suhaag
Raat, then I feel it is my duty to lay out the facts as I see them.
This is my advise, feel free to add anything on that you feel I
might have missed.
1. Trim the Bushes!!! Hygiene is everything. You need to take care
of your love shack before you go in for the first night. This goes
for guys and girls. It does not matter if it is the first time for
both of you but a well trimmed cabbage patch will get some of the
freak factor out of the way. Do not be shy about it either. This is
the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.
2. Preparation is everything. Apart from grooming you also need to
make sure you smell fresh. Do not expect to come in and see your
wife draped in the Sari she has been wearing all day. After the long
day of a wedding and reception you are bound to be sweaty and a
little stinky. Give each other the time and privacy to get all
cleaned up before you try to get romantic. It might be a bit too
early for a new couple to just jump into the shower together and
wash each other off. Save something for later. Rather, spend time
helping her off with all the crazy jewelry she has been wearing,
maybe even help take the thick cake of make up off. Afterwards you
can kick back in whatever clothes you find comfortable.
3. Set the scene. It is not too cheesy for you to bring in some
scented candles, massage oils, and a bottle of wine or champagne
into the mix. Bringing in a case of your latest sex toys is NOT
cool. There is a lot more time in life to explore those avenues.
Keep the first night simple even if both of you cant wait to try all
the freaky shit you have read about on the net. A message is a great
way to unwind. You could take turns doing each other.
4. Guys, do not expect your new wife to be all timid and shy. This
is a new era I tell you. We are all exposed to alternative life
styles and she might be the one lifting your Kurta before you can
get to her veil. But slow it down. The first night is more important
to get to know each other than playing hide the stick. It is better
to talk about sex for a while before getting into it, especially if
it is your first time. Make use of the wine and candles.
5. You do not HAVE to have sex on your Suhag Raat. You can just as
easily make love without penetration. This is like an extended level
of foreplay that you can carry on through the entire honeymoon,
until that perfect moment when it feels right. The first time for
women can be very painful so you must wait till you are both
comfortable. A bad experience the first time can leave lasting
effects so rushing into it could cause some long term losses if you
know what I mean. For both of you.
6. Just because you are engaging your spouse does not mean you
should not use contraception. I would think the last thing one would
want is to get pregnant right after you are married. It is so much
better to enjoy your first few years together without the hassles
and responsibilities of child bearing. Roll down the rubber at least
until you can sort out some alternate contraception. Not only will a
condom an unwanted pregnancy but it also has lubrication which will
enable easier first time penetration.
7. There will probably be enormous pressure built up for both of you
before the Suhaag Raat. Not just sexual pressure but psychological.
I do not know how this affects the chicks, but for guys this can be
very bad. You do not want to pull out a limp biscuit on your fist
time with the woman you are supposed to spend the rest of your life
with. You got to keep cool. This is where taking it slow will also
be in your favor. If there is a failure to launch, do not freak out
and pop a dozen Viagra. It's normal. And she should understand that
too. Once you decide that you are NOT going to have sex, that will
take the pressure off and you can enjoy each other.
8. Lastly, this is your spouse. If you do just dive in to the sex,
do not roll over and fall asleep after. Chances are that she will be
left in the dark, staring at the ceiling, hearing your tired drunken
ass snoring. You do not want the woman you love thinking about how
the fuck she ended up with you on her Suhaag Raat!
If all the above is of no help to you, pray for rain and take your
wife outside to dance and sing in the garden. In every movie I have
seen, the rain dance always ends up in a wikid hook up.
most people in the world, Indians also pick up ideas and concepts
from movies they watch. I remember watching Hindi films while
growing up and every time there was a marriage there was such
importance paid to the Suhag Raat. Of course in these traditional
films both the guy and girl were depicted as virgins, the girl even
more so being projected as very scared and innocent. Most of the
marriages were arranged, and many still are. So the concept of the
first time Suhag Raat is still quite real.
The classic Suhag Raat scene is usually a girl sitting in her
wedding Sari on the middle of a large bed covered with flowers and
surrounded by a curtain of garlands. Before the man enters the room
in his clean white Kurta, his mother hands him a glass of warm milk
which will supposedly enhance his potency. He enters the room with a
sweet look on his face and crawls into the bed with his bride,
slowly lifting the viel that covers her face. Add in the music. She
looks down at the mattress coyly, and then looks into his loving
eyes very slowly. The scene usually ends there or with some clips of
their hands and feet firmly stroking one another.
So if some youngsters out there are expecting this on their Suhaag
Raat, then I feel it is my duty to lay out the facts as I see them.
This is my advise, feel free to add anything on that you feel I
might have missed.
1. Trim the Bushes!!! Hygiene is everything. You need to take care
of your love shack before you go in for the first night. This goes
for guys and girls. It does not matter if it is the first time for
both of you but a well trimmed cabbage patch will get some of the
freak factor out of the way. Do not be shy about it either. This is
the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.
2. Preparation is everything. Apart from grooming you also need to
make sure you smell fresh. Do not expect to come in and see your
wife draped in the Sari she has been wearing all day. After the long
day of a wedding and reception you are bound to be sweaty and a
little stinky. Give each other the time and privacy to get all
cleaned up before you try to get romantic. It might be a bit too
early for a new couple to just jump into the shower together and
wash each other off. Save something for later. Rather, spend time
helping her off with all the crazy jewelry she has been wearing,
maybe even help take the thick cake of make up off. Afterwards you
can kick back in whatever clothes you find comfortable.
3. Set the scene. It is not too cheesy for you to bring in some
scented candles, massage oils, and a bottle of wine or champagne
into the mix. Bringing in a case of your latest sex toys is NOT
cool. There is a lot more time in life to explore those avenues.
Keep the first night simple even if both of you cant wait to try all
the freaky shit you have read about on the net. A message is a great
way to unwind. You could take turns doing each other.
4. Guys, do not expect your new wife to be all timid and shy. This
is a new era I tell you. We are all exposed to alternative life
styles and she might be the one lifting your Kurta before you can
get to her veil. But slow it down. The first night is more important
to get to know each other than playing hide the stick. It is better
to talk about sex for a while before getting into it, especially if
it is your first time. Make use of the wine and candles.
5. You do not HAVE to have sex on your Suhag Raat. You can just as
easily make love without penetration. This is like an extended level
of foreplay that you can carry on through the entire honeymoon,
until that perfect moment when it feels right. The first time for
women can be very painful so you must wait till you are both
comfortable. A bad experience the first time can leave lasting
effects so rushing into it could cause some long term losses if you
know what I mean. For both of you.
6. Just because you are engaging your spouse does not mean you
should not use contraception. I would think the last thing one would
want is to get pregnant right after you are married. It is so much
better to enjoy your first few years together without the hassles
and responsibilities of child bearing. Roll down the rubber at least
until you can sort out some alternate contraception. Not only will a
condom an unwanted pregnancy but it also has lubrication which will
enable easier first time penetration.
7. There will probably be enormous pressure built up for both of you
before the Suhaag Raat. Not just sexual pressure but psychological.
I do not know how this affects the chicks, but for guys this can be
very bad. You do not want to pull out a limp biscuit on your fist
time with the woman you are supposed to spend the rest of your life
with. You got to keep cool. This is where taking it slow will also
be in your favor. If there is a failure to launch, do not freak out
and pop a dozen Viagra. It's normal. And she should understand that
too. Once you decide that you are NOT going to have sex, that will
take the pressure off and you can enjoy each other.
8. Lastly, this is your spouse. If you do just dive in to the sex,
do not roll over and fall asleep after. Chances are that she will be
left in the dark, staring at the ceiling, hearing your tired drunken
ass snoring. You do not want the woman you love thinking about how
the fuck she ended up with you on her Suhaag Raat!
If all the above is of no help to you, pray for rain and take your
wife outside to dance and sing in the garden. In every movie I have
seen, the rain dance always ends up in a wikid hook up.